Greetings.

BenJun 8, 2023, 8:26 AM
To: S.W.
S.W.,

My name is Ben.  I am a former student of yours.  It has been quite a few years since we last spoke.  

My behavior at the time was inexcusable.  I treated you poorly and allowed my ego to drive a wedge between us.  I did not understand the value of our relationship, nor did I give you the respect you deserve.  For that I am truly sorry.  You had always given me your attention and treated me well and I was unfair in not doing the same.  This is something that has weighed on me for all of these years.

I am reaching out to you because I would like to make amends and reestablish our relationship.  I believe you are an excellent mentor with much to give the world.  My hope is that we can, at least, one day be peers and maybe even friends.

Please let me know if you have any interest in entertaining this notion.  If not, I understand.

– Ben
S.W.Jun 15, 2023, 2:29 PM
To: Ben
Hi Ben, 

Great to hear from you after all these years. Thank you so much for your message, it takes a lot of maturity and courage to write what you wrote so I want to sincerely thank you for that. I was certainly surprised and sad when you felt like our relationship turned sour, but I want you to know that I never took it personally or harbored any ill feelings about you or our time together. Consider it water under the bridge and consider our friendship back on. I know that life can take some strange twists and turns especially when we’re young so I totally understand that, I’m just glad that you seem to be in a better place and I hope that life is treating you well, you’re a great person with an incredible spirit and a lot to give the world!! 

-S

BenJun 15, 2023, 5:24 PM
To: S.W.
Shane,

🙂  Thank you for your kind words.  Congratulations on your latest show – I caught your recent IG posts.

It is great to hear back from you and I am glad we can resume our friendship.  I hope all is well with you.  As for me, I am in a great place: happily married, totally sober, laser focused and life is good.  I am finally ready to pursue new artistic endeavors.

I look forward to catching up.  

– Ben

P.S. I want to thank you for teaching me how to teach myself.  That is the single most important lesson.